Natural fabric softeners: what actually works (and what doesn’t)
Learn which natural fabric softeners actually work, which ones don’t, and whether you even need one. From vinegar rinses to wool dryer balls, here’s what makes clothes feel softer without heavy fragrances or buildup.
Years ago, I shared several ideas for natural fabric softeners after experimenting with a few popular DIY options. At the time, I was also using a soap-based homemade laundry “detergent,” and like many people, I assumed that adding something to soften clothes was just part of the process.
When I moved to Spain, I also noticed that almost everyone here used fabric softener. We have very hard water in this area, and I assumed it was something I needed too. That was a big shift for me, because growing up in Michigan, I don’t remember my mom ever using fabric softener, and I hadn’t really used it myself either. We now have a water softener installed at home, which has also made a noticeable difference in how our laundry feels.
In reality, I never stuck with most of these DIY methods. I tried a few of them briefly, but once I switched to a more effective, surfactant-based detergent and started using wool dryer balls, I found I didn’t really need a fabric softener at all.
That said, there are still situations where it can help. If you line dry your clothes, for example, they can feel a bit stiff. And in areas with hard water, mineral buildup can leave fabrics feeling rough over time.
The tricky part is that not all “natural” fabric softeners work the same way. Some can help reduce buildup and improve how fabrics feel, while others don’t do much at all.
So instead of just listing a bunch of DIY options, let’s take a closer look at what actually works, what’s optional, and what I’d skip.
Using wool dryer balls to soften clothes
A few years ago, I shared how to make wool dryer balls as a natural alternative to commercial dryer sheets. I still use them today, and they’re one of the simplest ways to help soften clothes without adding anything to your laundry.
Unlike fabric softeners, which work by coating fabrics, wool dryer balls soften clothes mechanically. As they tumble in the dryer, they help separate the fabric, improve airflow, and reduce drying time. That movement alone can make clothes feel noticeably softer.
They’ve pretty much replaced fabric softener for me when using the dryer.
I sometimes add a couple of drops of essential oils to the dryer balls for a light, natural scent. That said, I keep it minimal. Essential oils are flammable, so it’s best not to overdo it or apply large amounts right before running a hot dryer cycle. If you’d rather play it safe, you can always scent your laundry with sachets in your closet instead.
Of course, if you line dry your clothes, dryer balls aren’t an option. Clothes dried on a line tend to feel a bit stiffer, especially in areas with hard water. That’s where some of the alternatives below can be helpful.
Do you really need fabric softener?
Fabric softener isn’t really necessary for most loads of laundry.
It’s designed to make clothes feel softer, but it doesn’t actually clean anything. Most commercial softeners work by coating fabrics to reduce friction and static. That can make clothes feel smoother at first, but it can also build up over time and affect absorbency, especially in things like towels or activewear.
If you’re using a good detergent that rinses cleanly, your clothes will usually come out just fine on their own. This is especially true if you’re drying them in the dryer (with or without dryer balls) or if you have softened water.
That said, there are a couple of situations where you might notice a difference…
If you have hard water, minerals like calcium and magnesium can leave residue behind on your clothes. Over time, that can make fabrics feel a bit rough or stiff.
You’ll probably notice it even more if you line dry your clothes. Air-dried laundry just tends to feel a little crunchier since it isn’t being tumbled around like it is in the dryer.
In those cases, it can help to use something that removes that buildup rather than just trying to “soften” the fabric.
What actually works to soften clothes naturally
Vinegar rinse (simple and effective)
If you’re going to try one natural fabric softener, this is the one I’d choose.
White vinegar works differently than commercial fabric softeners. Instead of coating your clothes, it helps remove leftover detergent and mineral buildup from hard water. That buildup is often what makes fabrics feel stiff in the first place, so removing it can make a noticeable difference.
I find it especially helpful when line drying clothes or when dealing with harder water.
It’s also very simple to use. Just add it during the rinse cycle so it can do its job without interfering with your detergent.
You don’t need to worry about your clothes smelling like vinegar. Once everything is rinsed and dried, the smell disappears.
If you like a light scent, you can add a few drops of essential oils, but I usually keep it simple.
Vinegar fabric softener (simple rinse aid)
Materials
- 1 gallon white vinegar
- 20 –30 drops essential oil optional
Instructions
- Pour the vinegar into a large bottle or container for easy use.
- If using essential oils, add them to the vinegar and gently shake to combine.
- Add 1/4 to 1/2 cup of vinegar to the fabric softener compartment of your washing machine so it is released during the rinse cycle.
- Adjust the amount depending on load size and water hardness.
Notes
- Use plain white vinegar (around 5% acidity).
- The vinegar smell does not remain after rinsing and drying.
- Essential oils are optional. If using them, keep the amount low and avoid adding large amounts directly before a hot dryer cycle.
- This works best when added during the rinse cycle, not with the detergent.
- If you already have softened water, you may need less vinegar.
Other natural fabric softener ideas (and how they compare)
Baking soda
Baking soda is often suggested as a natural fabric softener, but it doesn’t really soften clothes in the same way. It can help with odors and may slightly improve how fabrics feel, but it’s not something I rely on for softening laundry.
Glycerin
Glycerin can add a bit of softness to fabrics, but it works by lightly coating them. Used occasionally, it can be fine, but over time it may lead to some buildup, especially if you’re already using a good detergent.
Salt
Salt is sometimes recommended, but I haven’t found it to make a noticeable difference. There’s not much evidence that it really softens fabrics, so it’s not something I use.
Tips for softer laundry
- Add vinegar during the rinse cycle, not with your detergent. This allows it to help remove residue instead of interfering with cleaning.
- Use less product rather than more. Excess detergent or additives can leave buildup behind, especially in hard water.
- Keep your water type in mind. If you have hard water, you’re more likely to notice stiffness from mineral residue. If you already have softened water, you may not need anything extra at all.
- Drying method also matters. Clothes dried in the dryer tend to feel softer because they’re constantly moving, while line-dried clothes can feel a bit stiffer.
- If you like adding scent, keep it subtle. A small amount of essential oil on dryer balls can work, but it’s not necessary.
Final thoughts
You don’t necessarily need a fabric softener at all. In many cases, a good detergent and proper rinsing are enough.
If your clothes feel stiff, especially with hard water or line drying, a simple vinegar rinse can help without adding unnecessary products or heavy fragrances.
Originally published November 25, 2016. Updated in April 2026 to reflect what I actually use now and what I’ve found works best over time.
Hi, quick question – with the distilled water and glycerin recipe – would you need to use a preservative? As one is not added in the recipe? Or is the preservative in the detergent enough? Thank you 🙂
Oh sorry – don’t worry read reply below and you said “no you don’t” oops sorry! Should have read that first! 🙈 great recipes thank you 😊
Hi Natalie,
This post was originally
a guest post given to me by a cleaning place. When I updated the post, I couldn’t get a hold of the weiter anymore, so I couldn’t ask any questions and I ended up rewriting the post and removing all of her information. Looking over things now, though, I’d actually suggest using a lot less water in that recipe. Glycerin, when used at a high enough concentration, works well as a preservative itself. That said, the percentage of glycerin needs to be high enough. If too much water is added, it may no longer be a self-preserving mixture. I’d suggest keeping the mixture at least 40-50% glycerin. You can then use smaller amounts as a softener and you won’t need as much space to store it.
Thanks for that catch. I will seriously consider updating this post when I get home from my vacation.
Mixing vinegar with baking soda is more of a 5th grade science experiment than a laundry help. It’s great for cleaning drains and such. Not sure if it would be good for fabrics.
I specifically wrote that I wouldn’t suggest mixing those two together as they would cancel each other out.
When making the glycerine fabric softener, do I need a preservative?? If so, what do you recommend?? Also, I’ve been taking the Ice Cream salt crystals , Mixing my essential oil/Scented oil with Polysorbate 20, then I mix it with vegetable glycerine. Smells wonderful, disperses well in the wash> you can use it in the wash cycle or in the rinse cycle. THere is no water in that recipe, so I don’t need a preservative. I think??
Hi Laura,
No, with glycerin, there is no need to use a preservative!
Tracy, thank you so much for sharing all of these fantastic recipes!
I have been trying to reduce the chemical load in our home more and more lately. A friend of mine brought to my attention the idea of making our own laundry detergent, softeners, etc.
I love the idea of using just vinegar, but our extremely hard water causes the clothes to still feel stiff. (I’ve been a long time Downy addict). I’m trying the hair conditioner and vinegar method today. Although I worry about the chemicals still present in the conditioner. (Even with the ‘natural’ choice I bought)
Has anyone you know tried the glycerin method with great results? I’m curious if that would finally be the solution to my hard water laundry woes. ?
Sending blessings to you and yours. Thanks for sharing such a helpful post! ♥️
Hi Holly,
Thank you!
I still haven’t tried it personally, but maybe someone can chime in. I hope you find something that works for you. (I’m going to be updating my conditioner recipe soon, so maybe you can use something from there.) 😉
I came across your website while checking to see what is happening on the home-made detergent front and noticed that the Salt Based Fabric Softener above recommends NaOH, although this is a salt, it is not the salt you mean. This is actually sodium hydroxide, also known as caustic soda. Really not recommended as a fabric softener, more recommended for clearing out blocked drains. I suggest you change the salt to NaCl, which is sodium chloride, the main salt in sea salt and Himalayan salt.
Cheers.
Hi Peter,
Yes, I’m sorry about that. I’m so used to writing NaOH for the lye for all of my soap recipes, that I guess I wrote it out of habit. I have since changed it. 😉
Hi there,
When you talk about using salt as a softener and say ‘other NaOH salts’ do you mean NaCl salts? I’m a bit confused otherwise, but maybe I’m misremembering chemical symbols from school – it’s been a while! Isn’t NaOH sodium hydroxide though??
Thanks for all the amazing information and recipes you share Tracy.
Melanie
Hi Melanie,
Yes, of course!
With all of my soap recipes, I’m used to writing NaOH all of the time to distinguish the different types of lye. (NaOH, sodium hydroxide, is used for bar soaps and KOH, potassium hydroxide, for liquid soaps.)
I guess out of habit, I wrote it yet again. Oops!
Fixed now- thanks for the heads up!
Hi Tracy, I have read that fabric softener with hair conditioner can be made, could the conditioner work with btms and glycerin? and do not put oil, but what could be added? What do you advise?
Thank you..
Hi Sarah,
I’ve never tried it, but I imagine that would work.
You could probably make it as is with the oil as most conditioners also have oils. I’d think that with the emulsification, it wouldn’t actually stain anything.
That said, you can totally leave the oil out of the conditioner too. I’ve used only BTMS with water before and no problem!
Thanks for sharing all this cool things we can do at home. My questios is if the fabric softener made with vinegar doesnt smell too much. I just cleaned my kitchen with vinegar and the smell was awful!!! Thanks
Hi Cristina,
I haven’t noticed any lingering vinegar scent once the clothes are dry!
I know what you mean about using it in a spray. It’s not my favorite either. 😉
I have just read that vinegar can harm the rubber parts of your washing machine, (especially if it is a front loading washer). I have used it for a while now,… so I will be switching to glycerine and distilled water. FYI Thanks.
you saved me a lot of time, thanks for sharing the useful information.
I’m happy to have helped!
Can all these be used with cold water wash? I don’t have hot water going into my washing machine. We are also on an eco septic tank so are they all worm friendly?
Hi Dianne,
I don’t see any problem with the cold water. I wasn’t sure about the worms, though, and meant to look it up- but I completely forgot and almost didn’t answer you!
I’m not sure about the worms because while these are environmentally friendly, coming into contact with a very high or low pH probably isn’t in their best interest. I would think, though, that unless you had the water run off directly to the area where you have worms for compost or something, that it wouldn’t be enough to be a problem.
That’s just my best guess, though. I’m not completely sure.